Self confidence in dating
Known for her honest insight into the female mind and her direct feedback and advice, Kezia has been invited to regularly feature on a number of TV and radio programmes both in the US and in Europe, earning her the reputation for being the nation’s most ‘straight talking’ dating coach.
When you look into your partner's eyes, what do you see? Next, answer this question: Do you feel that you deserve those feelings?
You should love and celebrate who you are and it should be something that causes you to experience great happiness and pride, never shame or despair.
Having a significant other is a wonderful thing, but it isn’t the thing and it certainly doesn’t make you complete, despite what the Hallmark cards might say.
Acknowledging your attributes privately, however, is a wonderful thing and is a practice you all should adopt.
You can write down your positive traits or consciously let them run through your mind.
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During the course of our relationship my moods were totally contingent upon the way he responded to me- a compliment would lead to exhilaration. After this relationship ended, I truly learned the value of loving myself, and I found that with my newfound confidence, I was a much happier person out of the relationship than I had ever been when I was in it.
Everyone has positive attributes, from physical features to personality traits.
From now on, forget what you’re lacking, or what you you’re lacking, and focus on all the incredible things that make you who you are.
If you want to try out a bold look but feel hesitant, tell yourself: ‘A confident person doesn’t care what other people think and I’m a confident person and I like this outfit so I’ll wear it!
’ If you’re afraid of approaching a guy because you’re scared he’ll reject you, well say to yourself, ‘A confident person doesn’t fear rejection because a confident person knows they’re fabulous and knows they’re a catch in every sense and whoever doesn’t see that is missing out.
When a negative thought pops into your head, cut it off right then and there.