7th date dating
Lovelies: I had dinner with my BFF Daisy Milliner over the weekend, and she told me a horror story about a friend of hers--a nice, successful, smart girl who waited till the SEVENTH DATE to have sex with a guy she thought she liked. --he didn't call, didn't text, didn't contact her in ANY WAY.
If it took me that long to judge the character of someone I'd go nuts.6 coffee dates in a row..is possible with many types of people!hah So doing different things in different settings for first few dates is probably wiser.It goes something along the lines of " We decided that the code isn't so much rules, but more like guidelines." I think the same, loose sort of approach to all dating-expert recommendations is in order.Draw all he general hints for what to consider, that you like from such things, but discard all set time-lines and certain conclusions completely.
To really know someone takes 6 to 12 months, especially if you are looking for LTR material.6 dates, then dump if you don't feel a connection? What if the guy may have decided you are the one, since you keep going out with him, and takes you out on six nice dates, drops a bit of cash doing it then whammo, sorry Charlie? If we get to 6 dates, by then I'll probably know if I want to bring up exclusivity.